Off my chest

Ok here goes...I don't think that my older siblings read this blog but I really wish they did if only for this post...

Why will you not give our dad a chance??? He loves you and your spouses and your children but he hasn't been able to get to known them. I understand that there are two sides to every story and I also know that dad is not perfect but doesn't he deserve a chance to explain or answer your questions or even a free pass...what if it was your mother's fault, what if dad is really a good guy and you have wasted decades not knowing that, what if your children will hate you one day for keeping them from him, what if this is all water under the bridge and we could all have a fresh start.

He hurts because he doesn't see you guys. You are his children. His first children. Is it because you think he isn't really your dad?? They have DNA tests for that. Is it because of my mom...get over it.

Dad doesn't know that i'm writing this and he would probably be upset if he found out.

I wish I could tell you how happy he was to see y'all the other day and to finally meet his grandchildren.

Oh and sis, people might not mistake us for each other if you graced us with your presence more often than once a decade or so.

Ok that's my rant and I have wanted to call them and tell them this personally but haven't felt like I should.

You are my brother and sister and I love you, so does our father. Please try to put the past behind you and move on.